Few things have read me for filth more thoroughly than an astrology meme I once saw on Instagram. In fairness, though, it definitely is—or at least, it can be. Again, guilty as charged. Sometimes, sex should be fast, challenging, mind-expanding. Sometimes you want to feel as intellectually engaged in the act of sex as you are physically engaged in it.
Skip navigation! Story from Sex. When did you last try a new sex position? Whether or not you're in a relationship, it's all too easy to fall back on a handful of tried-and-tested moves and forget the delicious variety available to you and your partner. That's where Clare Cavanah and Rachel Venning come in.
Lazy sex syndrome is definitely a real thing—and for good reason. In other words: Why reinvent the so-called wheel when you can settle into the oh-so-comfortable spoon position, or revert to the position that always, unfailingly gets you off? First of all, you never know where a different-than-normal sex position might lead—and while an orgasm might be one of the lucky results of trying something new, it could also simply be a tantalizing way to build things up; a strategy to keep things fresh with your partner; or an excuse to appreciate all the awesome things our bodies can do. And some are minor twists on classics that are just a good reminder to try every so often. This one is like vagina-owner-on-top, in heterosexual, cis-gendered couples, except with the genders reversed.
Our sex positions tool can be used to filter through all positions we have on the site. Use it to find the best positions for just about any encounter. In fact, people have been mixing things up since, well, probably since we started hooking up. However, it was an ancient Hindu text called the Kama Sutra that popularized finding innovative ways to get laid. The Kama Sutra was written between and AD and was published in English in , but it really took off when a version started circulating on the Internet.